Realistic Expectations

I’ve learned as I have grown older, one of the things, is not to expect too much from people.

If we are expecting everyone to recognize and appreciate what we have done for them, we will certainly be deeply hurt. We’ll start asking ourselves: “Is this all the thanks I get?”

It is possible to pour a good deal of energy and love into a friend or family member and see no growth or receive no gratitude for our efforts. It is even likely and possible that others may receive credit for the work we have done.

It is good in those times of disappointment to reflect at our motives. Do we have to be seen, applauded and recognised for our efforts?

Can we give freely and allow others to take responsibility for their own responses?

Quote for today:

“Every house guest brings you happiness: some when they arrive and some when they are leaving”. Confucius